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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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And that made her run?

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.** **A number by itself is useful, but it is far more useful to know how accurate or certain that number is.**

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Actually we both were in the same section till the eightth grade and used to share the same classroom.

Now, we are ninth graders and she sits in a different classroom. We haven't talked to each other in person for long. She isn't used to see me appear before her.

Yesterday, we were talking and she said she was very angry. I asked how could I have helped. She replied that A slap would come her down. I asked her to slap me. She asked me to come 2 her class so that she could slap me

'And fun? If maths is fun, then getting a tooth extraction is fun. A viral infection is fun. Rabies shots are fun.'

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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But that did not work. Next time have her try a couple of slow deep breaths.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.** **A number by itself is useful, but it is far more useful to know how accurate or certain that number is.**

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*Facepalm*

What have I done that she becomes like this? Whats so much wrong with me?

'And fun? If maths is fun, then getting a tooth extraction is fun. A viral infection is fun. Rabies shots are fun.'

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**Mathegocart****Member**- Registered: 2012-04-29
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hm......im not sure

The integral of hope is reality.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Hi Agnishom;

They are very changeable, sort of even fickled. One day they like you the next day they don't...

You will have to learn to get used to that. You can not change anyone else's behaviour. Even if you use force. But you can change and moderate your own.

Try to take a little bit more of a detached viewpoint. This will mean less distress for you. And you can come in here and talk to me and I will cheer you up.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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Thank you for your support

I feel a little better

*Last edited by Agnishom (2013-02-06 13:07:35)*

'And fun? If maths is fun, then getting a tooth extraction is fun. A viral infection is fun. Rabies shots are fun.'

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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You should. Your internal meter should never rise and fall on what others think or say about you. Listen to their criticism without emotion, if they are right then change your actions. If they are not just forget it or retaliate.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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She isn't criticising me

And that's where the problem is.

Also, I do not care if anyone else criticises me.

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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And that's where the problem is.

Ignoring you is a form of criticism. Treat it with a dose of its medicine, ignore it. If she talks to you that is great, if not that is also great.

When learning how to fight you learn to protect your head, chest and a few other spots. You have to protect your heart when dealing with girls.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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Ignoring you is a form of criticism.

But I thought criticism is something like this:

Criticism is the practice of judging the merits and faults of something or someone in an intelligible (or articulate) way.

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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I an intelligible way, hmmm. Maybe that can apply?

I like this definition better:

the act of passing severe judgment; censure; faultfinding.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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Yes. so what judgement, what censure, what faults...?

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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I can find none, but I am not her. They are very emotional and fragile sometimes. Is there no chance of her telling you what she is thinking and feeling?

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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What you told in #410 sounded somewhat like Nky's advice

*Last edited by Agnishom (2013-02-08 03:52:52)*

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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I think it is sound advice for lots of things in life. You need to draw upon the inner calm that comes from understanding that these problems are illusions. They come and go. They change daily, do not change with them.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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The bad language filters on the site are pretty good

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Hmmm, yes they are but I can not imagine who would be testing them.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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Have you done it?

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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No, the routines are part of FluxBB. Then the words you want to censor are added manually.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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Is FluxBB open source?

BTW, does the 'm' and 'r' in *that* word make much difference?

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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I do not think it is open source but I am not sure.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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It is

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Hi Agnishom;

Okay, thank you.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.****If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.**

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Most Welcome

'God exists because Mathematics is consistent, and the devil exists because we cannot prove it'

I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested.

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