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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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There are many ways to become attractive to them. In the future you will almost certainly fall into one of the categories and have all the dates you want.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Sounds like fun, I want to be there now.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Hmmm, do not worry it will seem like tomorrow.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Yes, time seems to pass quite quickly these days...

Strange that adriana would send me an e-mail only to then stop replying again. Looks like every last spark has been put out.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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She might send you another.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

'Might' being the operative word...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Depends on how bad she needs the math.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

In the beginning I'm pretty sure she wanted me for more than just maths...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Can you be sure of that? Why would she change her mind?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

She knew I wasn't going there just to help her with maths. I went 3 weekends in a row. For instance, we were sitting on a sofa one time and over time she was trying to get closer to me and I closer to her. Eventually she would be resting on my shoulder. She wanted my body to be cuddling hers, I know that for sure. One way of looking at it is that she needed a substitute of sorts for the lack of intimacy from her BF.

If she has changed her mind, it is obvious why...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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I would not blame him for her change. She is the one who changed. No matter what, that was going to burn out real fast no matter what you did. There was no long term relationship possible there. Next time you will act quicker knowing that they change their minds within hours.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Yes, acting quickly is something I should have done. I could have got something out of it...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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You will learn not to waste time. There is never enough time.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I had a feeling that the amount of time I had left was exactly the amount of time until her flight departure to Cyprus.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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The fact that she was going, meant you were low on her list. If you could deal with that then you would not care, but you could not...

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I don't think I could have prevented her from going, especially as it might have been a family trip. At the time I thought I had done well just to be sitting next to her.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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I did not mean for you to try and stop her from her voyage of sin, I meant drop her like a hot rock! You knew you were at the bottom of her list but you still had an opportunity to follow in homework guy's footsteps and have a bit of fun. You did not do that either...

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

That was my first time being that close to a girl. I was clueless regarding what to do. How can I be expected to follow homework guy in that scenario? Even she said that I seemed very nervous.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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You were not expected. But now you will be expected to perform better because you know better.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I guess so.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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That is if she requires your services in the future.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

It seems like she probably won't...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Then you are not useful to her in any way. I would suggest feeling the same way about her.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Over time, I will.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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That is for sure. Each experience will teach you.

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