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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
- Registered: 2009-04-12
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Look, mistakes get made and that is the end of them. Learn what you can from the mistake and then let it go.

About getting another chance, that is unknown. My guess is most likely no. If it happens you will be better prepared next time.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I feel like I will keep making that same mistake again and again and keep wasting opportunities...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
- Registered: 2009-04-12
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That is true. The mistakes never stop. You will always make some, but they will get smaller and smaller.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

On the flip side, had I taken advantage I may have been more hurt after learning that she was with her BF again.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Definitely! It would not have changed a thing.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I would have gained some experience though...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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You would have but there will be other chances.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I'm sick of waiting...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Waiting is what you will have to do most of the time. Can't be helped.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Well at least I am going into a field where lots of other guys and girls will be shy or introverted, then the competition may not be as fierce. The girls may also be inexperienced.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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What field is that?

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Mathematics. You should see the uni open days, people are too scared to talk to each other.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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That might help and it might hinder. You will know soon enough.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

At least 6 months, it should take...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Why do you think it will take 6 months?

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

That is when uni starts.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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You might get something going before that.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I'd like to hope so but logically I have 'used up' the pool of girls that are available to me. 6 months until I get to go in the deep end where the newer fish are swimming around.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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If you have to wait, then you will. In the meantime keep looking. Dating, is definitely a volume business.

I am going off line until later. I need some rest.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Okay, see you later.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Hi;

Any news yet or just more silence?

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Just more silence I'm afraid.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
- Registered: 2009-04-12
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How about from Holly? Any good word there.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Nope... nothing.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
- Registered: 2009-04-12
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You know what they say,"No news, is good news!" Although in this case it does not apply.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

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