yes, but you have gone through the hell of having a relationship and then having it fall apart.

You will though.

Yes, I believe so. There is a better than 60% chance.

Girls are not the only ones that fall for people who treat them poorly. Men are susceptible to it too.

Remember when I told you that F was actually being merciful. That she could have led you on and then dumped you. The emotional pain is about 100 times worse than being dumped in the beginning. I also told you that future girls might not be merciful and take delight in destroying men.

She has detected that you like her. She is a massive game player. I have seen the type dozens of times and each time they whupped me real good.

That I can not say because it is quite possible you will find nothing better. I think you already realize that this pattern is going to be repeated again and again. They are all pretty much the same.

Heck no! Have you ever heard the old gamblers adage? "The next best thing to playing and winning is playing and losing!"

We are alive to experience things. We try to avoid the obviously bad experiences but will make many mistakes along the way. I enjoyed every date with all of them. Pain and suffering is part of life, get used to it, it ain't going away.

They say, "if life deals you lemons, make lemonade!"

And what if with lots of bad experiences there are barely any good experiences or none at all?

Whether or not an experience is good or bad depends on how you view it, how you react to it. That is why detachment is so relevant.

Detachment is not paralysis, it is much closer to cool, rational action.

Adrenalin is the fight or flight hormone. It is for action without thought. It is great when you are in physical danger. For all other situations clear thought without adrenalin is better.

Are you prepared adequately?