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**zetafunc.****Guest**

But she has said she wants to remain completely faithful to her boyfriend. I do remember this though:

"I can't give you what you want so I think that's best. You really are wonderful and maybe under different circumstances.. I'm sorry. I would love for you to still come over this weekend :)"

What could she be offering?

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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That is what you should ask her. Ask what she needs you for.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

**I agree with you regarding the satisfaction and importance of actually computing some numbers. I can't tell you how often I see time and money wasted because someone didn't bother to run the numbers.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I sort of already know; she says she wants me to be her friend. Whatever that means.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Kaboobly doo! Men and women can never be just friends.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

**I agree with you regarding the satisfaction and importance of actually computing some numbers. I can't tell you how often I see time and money wasted because someone didn't bother to run the numbers.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I did ask her when she was going to see her boyfriend and she asked me why it's so important.

I don't know what to say to her at the moment.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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So, she just wants you as a friend. Hmmm, tell her you have enough friends.

**In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.**

**I agree with you regarding the satisfaction and importance of actually computing some numbers. I can't tell you how often I see time and money wasted because someone didn't bother to run the numbers.**

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

She has said she doesn't want to cheat on her BF (I wouldn't be surprised if HE was cheating on her to be honest), so she can't promise me anything. If I say that I don't want to be friends, what could happen?

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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She would have to make a decision. I would also mention that I do not for one minute believe that kaboobly doo about being faithful to a guy who lives on another planet.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

But what do I say to her? I don't understand how this is keeping my options open? If I make an ultimatum of sorts, then I'd be burning my bridges if she gives me the wrong answer anyway. I don't believe it either and it makes me think there is something about me that is making her reluctant.

Maybe just a theory of mine, but I have a feeling I should have kissed her before I left. Then she might not be so reluctant.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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It does not cost you anything to email her back infrequently but not cutting her off. You can always cancel the next meeting claiming you have something else to do.

If you think there are some chances with her then why lose that? It does not matter what she says, you have to go with your instincts.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Okay, I have e-mailed her. Not burning my bridges just yet.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Since you do not know which way she will turn then that may be wise.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Who knows. Maybe I can say a few things, and perhaps do a few things, that will make her want me instead.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Who knows. She may very well change her mind. In the meantime you can consider someone else just in case she does not.

I am going to take a break to eat, see you later.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I am kind of considering Katie but I'm still not sure about her. She comes from quite a wealthy family and in that sense reminds me of PJ a little bit, but she is less boastful than PJ and a bit more sociable, and prettier too. But to be honest I just think she's physically attractive... she seems a little bit bland, I don't know how else to describe her.

Okay, see you later.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Hi;

Bland? In what way?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Like a bit aloof or distant. Maybe bland was the wrong word. She just seems a bit emotionless at times.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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That can be good or bad. If she is available then why not try for it?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I don't know, I have yet to decide if I want to.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Juggling a bunch of them can be nerve wracking.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I'll see what adriana says first... although, I'm still considering others.

I don't know, physically Katie is cute but there are lots of little things too, like her breath smells, she is a messy eater etc. but those are also only little things.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Of what, liquor?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

No, of someone who doesn't brush their teeth.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Soon I won't have that job anymore.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

You do not brush your tongue?