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**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Okay, remember girls tire easily. Guys can keep something going for years but the girls they tend to get bored or despondent.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I hope that isn't happening here. Haven't got any e-mails from any of the 4 today.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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It is a little bit early to start worrying could just be an ordinary delay.

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I wish they replied a bit more often though. I am surprised, with 4 girls, I'm not getting many e-mails very often.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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They might not like writing as much as you do. As far as I can remember the ones I know tend not to like email or text.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

That might be a problem...

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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I guess they depend a lot more on visual clues than we do so they prefer face to face interaction.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I am choosing to wait for more signs first. I want to see if I can ascertain a greater probability.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Yes, but what if the sign is I am no longer interested in you?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Then I move on and forget about the person and find another.

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I'm at an advantage with 3 of the 4 girls (not R) since they go to different schools. If I wanted to, I could easily cut off all contact with them permanently.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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I would cut the time in half that you are allocating to email. It might be too slow.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Okay, I ask Katie out whenever I see an opening.

I think for the other two girls it's too early since I barely know them. I cannot even remember what one of them looks like.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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That might work. Worst that could happen is she says no.

Any of those girls willing to send you a picture or to a link?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Not sure. Seems sort of a personal thing to ask. There is a picture of one of the girls on Twitter but it's a little small.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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That ought to be enough to get an idea. Can you blow it up?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

It gets a little blurry. Can't see her face too well. She's got a nice body though.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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Okay, you will have to wait until she responds or you see her again.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I may not see them again, I only have one more Saturday class.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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When is that? You will have to make your move right then if you are interested.

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

The 8th of December and technically I don't need to go because it is 'final interview practice' -- but my interview is just before that and the majority of those guys are applying for Oxford, so their interviews are later.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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So the question is will you go and what will you do?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

I don't know if there is any point in going, I rarely get to talk to them that much in that environment. Katie doesn't talk to me much there -- I think it's better to stay in touch by phone.

**bobbym****Administrator**- From: Bumpkinland
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You have those girls' phone numbers?

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**zetafunc.****Guest**

Just Katie and R. I can get the other girls' phone numbers easily, probably.