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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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Okay, so still all okay. Sounds like a dream date. What happened next?

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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I went home, he texted me goodnight sweetie. I texted him Sun. and Mon. just short stuff and no answer.

I figured we'd go out next weekend too.

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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No call after that?

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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I had built my hopes up, since we clicked and he was a good looking man. He said I was beautiful, intelligent and easy to talk to.

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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I still can find nothing wrong with that.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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no calls after the date no.

Then i got home this evening and he'd left this:

"sorry i havent been in touch. i feel kinda guilty about what we did the other night. i talked to my pastor about it and he agrees we moved to fast..i m sorry but i just dont think its going to work. maybe if we hadnt moved so fast but its too late cause we already did..i wish u all the best..."his first name afterward.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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so you know why i am crushed. Now, I don't know whether i was a one night stand or not. But it is likely I was, and I am devastated.

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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That is a little harsh. he gave no excuse for bailing out?

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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a parole officer talking to a pastor??? Does not sound likely.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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no, it just said we were moving too fast.

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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Okay, listen. Let's say that is all he wanted. There is no reason to be feeling crushed over it. That you have a choice about. You have control over that. He does sound like he feels sort of guilty.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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"we", it was his idea

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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What was his idea?

Best thing is to put it behind you.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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the entire evening and the connection

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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Try to look at it this way. It some ways it is kind of flattering to you.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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how so.

You should have seen my long reply.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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how is dumping a woman after rolling her "flattering."

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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Well, bear with me on this. He sounds like he went out of control. You made that happen. It is not your fault but he was obviously smitten.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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so why dump me. I am not usually the one who gets dumped.

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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Maybe he got cold feet. maybe the whole thing was too good. I can not say. Not every time you get dumped is it because you are being manipulated.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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I've lost page 2, where did it go?

Well, if he was smitten, then he would want it to continue. By saying what he did, it makes me feel like trash. It was his idea.

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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I am not usually the one who gets dumped.

Now we are getting to it. There is a little bit of ego involved here. Have you done a lot of dumping?

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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Yes, I have dumped every man I was ever with except one.

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**bobbym****bumpkin**- From: Bumpkinland
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I see. Then you can consider this a learning experience. Now you do not have to guess what all of them felt. It is worse for guys. Crushed does not describe it.

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**survival****Member**- Registered: 2011-04-03
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So, you are saying maybe I am getting karma, even though I rocked his world?

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