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If they found out you even cared about what they care about they would find that unattractive.
Do you think American girls (or girls in general) find it unattractive if a man can cook? I remember reading some woman's viewpoint online somewhere that it was seen as 'too feminine a quality'.
That will come with practice. You have the time.
I don't know if I am just 'out of practice'. But I can talk to any guy just fine. Whenever I am in the presence of a girl I just can't be myself anymore. I think that has been the case with every girl I've ever talked to in person, actually. The only exception was when I started getting closer to Adriana but that took an extremely long time.
Then do not do so much talking. Let them talk. They love to talk about themselves.
But I always find it hard to make a move. Either it doesn't happen at all or I begin to do it but far too slowly, at which point it is too late and she will have found some other guy. And it is only going to get harder, too. I literally can't last half a conversation before girls get bored of me right now, and it's been the story ever since I started uni.
You will come across many like her, do not worry. Some of them you will succeed with... You will wish you had not.
As I said, they have no interest or type. It is up to you whether or not she will be yours.
I shouldn't care -- there is always someone better at there. I am just annoyed that I let her go, because I may not ever get a chance like that again.
She probably realizes? Better options? They do not reason that way. You were in contention with her so you are what she thinks is a better option. Besides what do you care what she thinks is better or not?
She was spending time with you? You were feeding her? She was talking to you? They do not waste even 10 seconds on someone they are not interested in.
I think perhaps one reason Adriana talked to me so much was because she went to an all-girls school. Now that she has finally met men at university, she probably realises that there are far better options out there, and I am not worth hanging on to.
You can if you can remain detached when she does not reply. Then you have nothing to lose. But if you can not exploit the situation that exists right next door...
You're saying I should stay in contact with Adriana? She doesn't normally contact me of her own accord -- if I hadn't contacted her in October I still would never have spoken to her since June. Stark contrast to the days when she was addicted to me, getting upset if I went two days without talking to her. And, like a fool, I could not take advantage...
Who said burn them?
I'm still friendly with her. But there is clearly no kind of attraction between us.
Remember Trudy, Inger and Helga? It does not pay to burn bridges unless absolutely necessary. Stay friendly and try to increase that. Even if you do not feel anything right now, you might later.